The quint’s 9-month celebration warrants yet another series to look at where each of the V5 are today! In three short months they have become not only more verbal, social and mobile, but also more strategic, witty and goofy!
Key priorities for mom and dad are to continue to help these kiddos:
Learn to crawl.
Hold their own bottles.
Eat soft, solid foods.
Learn to communicate with simple words and sign language.
Let’s Get Moving!
There are several gross motor milestones that precede crawling that help to build the body’s strength and coordination, including:
Holding one’s head in line and upright when pulled to sitting (3-6 months)
Bears weight on hands when lying on tummy (3-6 months)
Ability to sit with light support (3-6 months)
Rolling from stomach to back and back to stomach in both directions (3-6 months)
Sitting independently with the ability to right one’s balance and extend arms for protection (6-9 months)
Able to get into a sitting position independently (6-9 months)
Standing when holding on (6-9 months)
Crawls backward (6-9 months)
Able to pull to a standing position (6-9 months)
No one is crawling just yet, but all of the quints are able to sit up in some capacity, crawl backwards (or scoot), stand when being held and roll. While some say that some children do not crawl, or crawl for very long, we hope that ours do because of all the benefits of crawling:
Develops a sense of depth perception and location along with skills on how to navigate the environment.
Encourages decision making, focus and attention.
Requires that a baby connect a series of motions and increases coordination.
Develops muscular strength and stretches ligaments in the wrist and hands needed for fine motor skills.
Look what I can do!
While all of the quints are between a 6-9 month year old in terms of their gross motor skills, they are championing their fine motor skills! They can reach and hold large and small objects. They are able to manipulate objects in one hand and both hands. Lily has been mastered the pincer grasp! Other’s are still working on getting their pointer finger away from their hand; but all can now extend their thumb from their fingers! This skillset is critical for not only playing with more complex toys, but eating!
We are preparing to start finger foods! The only delay is mom’s fear of the impending mess that awaits after every meal. Arts and crafts time is about to get very real as we start to experiment with:
Soft Bananas
Cooked Carrots
Meatballs
Oat-based cold cereals
Monkey See, Monkey Do
Our five little monkeys are now keen observers. Many of our friends and family have noted how the kids what their every move. They are also much more social and communicative. We catch them “chatting” not only with each other but with their toys. We are also proud that their expressive communication and cognitive skills are tracking with their age:
Expressive Communication:
Babbles to people with inflection and produces a variety of consonants.
Vocalizes loudly to get attention.
Language Comprehension:
Looks and focuses on people, pictures and pets.
Responds to simple gestures.
Looks for family members when named (we are still working on this one).
Cognitive Skills:
Works to obtain items out of reach, and able to locate a hidden object.
Plays 2-3 minutes with one toy.
Touches a toy or adult to restart an activity.
Their social skills also surpass their age. They have long been able to recognize mom and dad, as well as, who is new (or a stranger). However, now all of them either calm easy when mom or dad are out of the room, or are completely content. They also all smile at images in a mirror- needless to say- Theo and Bella love themselves some mirror-time!
We also have been working on simple sign language for about the last 3-4 months. No one is able to sign back just yet, but I do believe they are beginning to connect the signs with the objects. The signs we have started with are:
Mama
Dada
Nana/Grandma
Grandpa
Milk
More
All Done
Eat
I Love You
We also have been using their signed letters for their names:
B for Bella
E for Elliott
I for Isabella
K for Kali
L for Lily
T for Theo
I am still amazed everyday at how learning can be a very independent process, and how we naturally develop all of these skills given that we have a safe, conducive environment to do so. I often feel like our little blessings teach me much more than I will ever teach them. I am so grateful for the new and maturing fruits in my life (patience, flexibility, changing priorities, appreciating each moment) that they continue to encourage with each day.
In the coming days, we hope you enjoy each quint’s individual snapshot!
Spring has [finally] sprung here in Madison! So, what have the quints been up to while they awaited spring?
The V-5 want to thank Culvers for these stylish onesies and their support since day 1!
Well, they have been eating like champs and are up to 3 solid meals per day. A typical day of meals would be 2-3 T of oatmeal with yogurt and bananas for breakfast, 2-3 T of beef or chicken with squash and potatoes for lunch, and dinner rounds out the day with 2-3 T of a green veggie, vegetarian protein (chickpeas, tofu or eggs) and a healthy fat (avocado).
When the kids aren’t feasting at meals, they tend to be trying to gum each other or anything within 5 inches of their mouth, munch on their toes, or blow raspberries.
Theo’s constantly going for those toes!
…Or his sister’s hair! Poor Kali Mae.
Another favorite past-time at 8 months is teething. Frank and I joke that getting teeth is a very inefficient process… 2 years of tears times five, well may be times seven. When all start moaning and groaning, hoping for those choppers, we gently ask them for results, and no more excuses. All are also working hard on learning how to crawl. They are all pros at the infamous Sphynx pose, as well as, rolling over. Theo is the closest to getting wheels. His efforts and dedication to learning to crawl are truly admirable. However, at this point he is easily frustrated and tends to opt for rolling like a log to get to and fro.
The kids are also barely big enough to fit into their dining table, which- for now- is a play place.
Smiley EllieCute KaliLillian GraceGoofy Bella
It is also the official meeting space for Girl’s Club Meetings…sorry no boys allowed!
The V-5 have also been patiently awaiting their first adventure around the neighborhood. They took their first stroll this past weekend…and they appeared to be less than thrilled about it.
Theo, Kali and lil Red Riding Hood (Elliott)
Lily, the garden gnome, and Bella ready for a stroll.
Despite, the lack of smiles and giggles that we anticipated, they looked pretty darn cute sporting their new spring jackets!
At 7 months the kiddos are expressive, talkative and almost mobile! All of the quints have rolled from their tummies to their backs and only Theo has made it from his back to his stomach. They are all really good at what we call the “sphinx pose,” or more commonly known as the cobra pose for you yogis out there. I have my money on Lily to crawl first.
Their choppers are definitely on their way in so drooling, chewing, and whining are popular past times. Beware; if you get too close you’re bound to get “gummed.” We have employed several tactics to soothe them including:
Nutrition is also a bit different nowadays. The quints have maxed out on their daily milk at 5-6 ounces per feeding, or 24-32 ounces per day, and are now chowing down on solids. Brunch consists of gluten-free oatmeal with banana or apples and Linner is beef or poultry in bone broth or steamed green vegetable with a side of squash or sweet potato. Kali continues to be the best guzzler, but Lily takes the cake (almost literally) when it comes to mowing through her solids, and well everyone’s leftovers, too!
It is amazing how big they are getting. I remember receiving the 6 month sleepers as gifts not believing they would ever be that big. But, now they are almost too big for those same sleepers! There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think back to those days in the NICU and thank God for how far these children have come.
T is for TheoB is for BellaL is for LilyK is for KaliE is for Ellie
They are certainly our pride and joy! We promise you that Theo and Bella are the goofiest of the bunch, but apparently not big fans of impromptu photo shoots before lunch.
Our little peanut is no longer the smallest of the bunch. She is the longest and weighs the 2nd most of the ladies. She is still our little emergency. She can go from zero to 60 in a few seconds. However, she is also our best self-soother. She is our little siren who is able to win over everyone she meets. Ellie is our first to start teething and thus her favorite toy is now her fingers. This little girl also loves her tummy time! She is one of our quieter quints, but if she observes any inefficiencies in her care she is sure to let you know it. This one definitely has a C-suite in her future!
Nicknames: Ellie, ER, Eliie Belly
Birth Length: 16.9 in
Current Length: 23.1 in
Birth Weight: 2.41 lb
Current Weight: 13 lb
Favorite toy: Her fingers
Favorite Past-time: Hanging out with her older brother
This sweet heart has a smile that could melt anyone’s heart. She is known for her little half-smile, smirk and high-pitched screech. Kāli-Mae is also the most expressive of the V-5. Her face cannot lie. We know when she is everything from scared, upset, happy, and even ready to cause trouble. She also is consistently wearing a bib, but simply because she has more drool than a girl can handle. She loves to eat and can down a bottle quicker than her brother. We joke that competitive eating may be in this little one’s future- watch out Joey Chestnut! She also is quite the talker and although we haven’t heard any true words, yet, her babble is getting close.
Nicknames: K-Mae, Monkey
Birth Length: 13 in
Current Length: 22.8 in
Birth Weight: 2.29 lb
Current Weight: 13.3 lb
Favorite toy: Colorful ball and Ziggy the Zebra (Mobile toys)
Favorite Past-time: Chilling in her jungle boppy with a firm grasp on her ball
This little love bug already has a heart made of gold. She is the most sensitive of the quints, and quite empathetic. She loves to smile and hold hands with her siblings in distress. She also is very sensitive to sounds and the smallest sneeze can send her jumping. She has crystal blue eyes and a genuine smile. She’s usually sporting a bib because drinking milk (and keeping it down) is not one of her fortes. But, when it comes to chowing solid foods- she’s the best! Ms. Lillian is now growing with the rest of her siblings and appears to have left the threats of developmental delays in the past.
Nicknames: Lil, Lily Bug
Birth Length: 14.6 in
Current Length: 22.6 in
Birth Weight: 2.69 lb
Current Weight: 11.6 lb
Favorite toy: Stuffed Eeyore
Favorite Past-time: Hanging out with Mommy and Daddy in the kitchen swing